11 Tips to Improve Your Mental Health Right Away

Believe it or not, your mental health is just as important as your physical health. It impacts your thoughts, feelings, relationships, career advancement, resilience, quality of life, and overall health.

What is mental health?

We throw the term “mental health” around a lot, but what exactly do we mean by it? Mental health is everything from your emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects your actions, thoughts, and feelings, and can completely shift the way that you engage with and experience the world.

Like your physical health, some aspects of your mental health are within your control and some aren’t. Your mental health will also change over time (and from minute to minute), depending on multiple factors including your genetics, brain chemistry, childhood experiences, current relationships, sense of connection, and life stressors.

When a person is in good mental health they’ll

  • Have an overall sense of contentment
  • Be able to laugh and enjoy themselves
  • Feel a sense of meaning or purpose in their activities or relationships
  • Be able to adapt and cope with change
  • Have supportive and sustained relationships
  • Be self-confident

This doesn’t mean they won’t experience hardship and disappointment or feel difficult emotions, most humans do. But they’ll have more resilience to cope with life’s challenges.

Signs of poor mental health

When a person’s mental health is under strain, they may begin to

  • Withdraw from their friends and family
  • Stop going to work or attending classes
  • Feel depleted of energy
  • Feel numb and emotionally withdrawn
  • Have aches or pains that aren’t explained by another issue
  • Feel hopeless
  • Drink more alcohol or use other drugs more frequently
  • Feel forgetful and confused
  • Be extra irritable
  • Have mood swings
  • Worry a lot
  • Get into fights with people
  • Struggle with their relationships
  • Get stuck in their head
  • Eat a lot or not very much
  • Sleep more than usual or have insomnia
  • Hear voices or see things that aren’t there
  • Think about self-harm or hurting other

What is a mental disorder?

A person can struggle with their mental health and not have a mental disorder. A mental disorder is a diagnosable mental health condition that involves significant changes in a person’s thinking, emotions, or behavior which create distress and get in the way of their functioning.

There isn’t a clear or single cause of mental disorders, though there are risk factors including

How to take care of your mental health

At some point or another, most of us will struggle with our mental health. We might try to distract ourselves with things like social media, self-medicate with things like alcohol, or push through it in hopes that it will resolve on its own. The problem is, none of these tactics typically work. In fact, they can have the opposite effect.

But there’s good news. You don’t have to stay stuck. There are things that you can do on a regular basis to improve your mood and strengthen your mental health. They’re not quick fixes for the most part, so it’s important to build them into your life in a way that’s sustainable.

Below are 11 ways that you can strengthen your mental health.

Be kind to yourself

When you’re struggling with your mental health, it’s easy to get down on yourself. You may wonder why you can’t just ‘snap out of it,’ or notice that your self-esteem has plummeted.

You don’t have to stand in front of a mirror and give yourself compliments, that probably wouldn’t feel very authentic and it wouldn’t do you much good anyway. But try being compassionate towards yourself.

Imagine you had a dear friend who was going through the same thing that you are. What would you say to them, and how would you comfort them? Try turning that compassion back towards yourself. You deserve it.

Practice mindfulness

Some days are going to be better than others, that’s just how life works. With mindfulness practice, you can develop your capacity to take each day as it comes. To do this, you don’t have to sit in a lotus pose for an hour every day (if you don’t want to). Mindfulness can be infused into your life through everyday activities.

Zen master and peace activist, Thich Nhat Hanh, has written about using mindfulness while completing the commonly dreaded daily act of washing the dishes. In the book, Peace is Every Step, he wrote:

“To my mind, the idea that doing dishes is unpleasant can occur only when you aren’t doing them. Once you are standing in front of the sink with your sleeves rolled up and your hands in the warm water, it is really quite pleasant. I enjoy taking my time with each dish, being fully aware of the dish, the water, and each movement of my hands.”

He goes on to write:

“If I am incapable of washing dishes joyfully, if I want to finish them quickly so I can go and have dessert, I will be equally incapable of enjoying my dessert. With the fork in my hand, I will be thinking about what to do next, and the texture and flavor of the desert, together with the pleasure of eating it, will be lost. I will always be dragged into the future, never able to live in the present moment.”

Throughout your day, see if there are moments where you can be fully present. Notice your thoughts and feelings without judging them, notice the sensations in your body. Each time you do this, you’re strengthening your awareness and, in turn, your mental health.

Use relaxation techniques

Developing an ability to turn on your body’s natural relaxation response can help you become more resilient against stress. When your breathing slows down and your muscle tension releases, you’ll feel the effects in both your mind and body.

A huge benefit of relaxation techniques is that they’re free and can be done almost anywhere. Your therapist can work with you to explore certain relaxation techniques and you can also try them out on your own. There are many techniques to choose from, try a few and see if you can find one (or two) that would fit into your everyday life so you can practice regularly.

Spend time in nature

You may have heard the term “forest bathing,” and wondered what it was. It sounds pleasant and a bit majestic, right? Originally from Japan, forest bathing or shinrin-yoku is about “taking in the forest through our senses.” There’s no actual bath involved. Instead, it’s the act of bathing your senses in nature.

Researchers have found that spending time in the forest can benefit your mental health. For example, walking in forests compared to urban centers has been shown to buffer against depression, anxiety, and exhaustion. While you’re at it, it may also improve your immune function and increase your heart health.

For the many of us who live in cities and don’t have regular access to a forest, try spending time with nature in the way that you can. It might be going to the beach, strolling in a neighborhood park or a small garden, watching the changing colors of sunset, looking at a snow-filled landscape, or even observing the grass growing between cracks in the sidewalk.

Get enough sleep

Of all ten tips, we can get the most bang for our buck by making sure we’re getting our recommended 7 to 9 hours of sleep each night. There’s a lot to do each day and sleep might seem like the first thing to cut if you can’t fit it all in. However, that’s the absolute wrong move for both your mental and physical health.

Losing even an hour of sleep can take a large toll on your mood, energy, ability to concentrate, and resilience. If you’re like me and it takes you a while to fall asleep after you lay down, try giving yourself more time to unwind before you end each day. Turn off your screens, wrap up your work, and eat your last snack at least two hours before you plan to be asleep. It can also help to keep the same general wake-up time each day of the week. This is true whether you’re a night owl with a late wake-up time or an early bird who falls who wakes up at 6 AM.

Pick up your journal

People have been writing in journals for at least a thousand years when men and women of the 11th-century Japanese court kept “pillow books” in their sleeping quarters. In the 21st century, scientists began to study the benefits of journaling for your mental health.

There are several reasons why journaling is good for you. It improves your emotional health by creating a space to express your emotions that otherwise might get stuffed down. It also helps you to organize your experiences into a coherent narrative.

If journaling repels you, take heart in knowing that you don’t have to write for hours at a time to reap the mental health benefits. Try writing for just 10 minutes a day one or two days per week. You can free-write about the day, a memory from your childhood, your goals, an experience at work, your dream trip…any topic is fair game. You’ll probably find that you start with one topic and end up on a totally separate topic when the 10 minutes is up.

The one caveat is that if you find yourself writing about something painful, try to spend a few minutes of your time exploring ways that you’ve coped (or would like to cope). And if you’re often writing about things that are bothering you, leave aside a couple of minutes to brainstorm how you might like to deal with the situation moving forward.

Exercise

Exercise can be a discouraging word. We all know that it’s good for us, and most of us wish that we were getting more of it, but can’t seem to find the time or energy to squeeze it in.

Not to pile on here, but did you know that exercise can improve your mental health as much as your physical health? Amazingly, physical activity can actually change the chemical balance in your brain and promote feelings of contentment, optimism, and joy.

The key to exercise is that it doesn’t always mean going to the gym or doing a grueling workout. In fact, getting yourself moving for 30-60 minutes, three to five times per week has the potential to make a substantial impact on your mental (and physical) health.

If you’re just getting started, focus on activities that you enjoy and that you can sustain such as taking a brisk walk at lunch, working in the yard, going for a bike ride, or dancing to your favorite music in your bedroom.

Nurture your relationships

Fellow introverts among us, I know what you’re thinking. “But being around other people actually drains me.” The truth is, even the most introverted people need to be seen, heard, and understood by–and also see, hear, and understand–other humans.

Humans are social creatures which makes it very difficult to thrive alone. Connecting to others is not as easy as it was before the pandemic, but it’s still possible. If you’re feeling lonely, get creative and write someone a letter or send them a personal video, asking for a reply.

It’s important to say what you need. You can reach out to a friend to let them know that you’re craving connection and you’d like to talk. If you want to build your social network, get out of your comfort zone a little by volunteering for a cause you’re interested in, taking a class, or starting a neighborhood cleanup. Acts of kindness and selflessness can have the added bonus of improving your mental health by filling you with positive feelings and adding to your sense of self-worth while doing good for the world.

Practice gratitude

When you reflect on your week, it’s easy to remember the things that went wrong–you were late for a meeting, you ate more than you wanted to, or your best friend didn’t text you back. But what about the things that are going well in your life?

Setting the intention to notice a few positive things each day can promote your emotional health. Hundreds of studies on gratitude have found that even in hard times, gratitude can reduce anxiety and depression, bring a feeling of happiness, improve your overall health and sleep, and strengthen your relationships.

If you’re heartbroken and just lost your job, it’s not to deny the pain and fear that you may be feeling, but to also take space to recall, “my coffee tastes so good in the morning.” And “my favorite part of today was snuggling with my cat.”

Learn what self-care means for you

Self-care and mental health go hand in hand. While each person has their own definition of what it means to them, ultimately self-care comes down to making space for yourself. You might use the space to listen to music, create music, craft, make gifts for your friends, color, cook, bake, look out the window, or read a good book. The possibilities are endless.

If you’re not sure what makes you feel good, try learning something new that interests you. This can boost your self-confidence and help you to connect with others. Maybe you’ll try a new recipe, explore a new project at work, DIY something at home, or learn a new language or skill. If there’s something out there that intrigues you, go for it.

Start therapy

There are many different forms of therapy. In Jungian Analysis you may analyze your dreams and explore your unconscious while in CBT you may engage in role plays and use thought records to move towards concrete goals. In either case, you’ll work with your therapist to develop a sense of meaning and purpose as you strengthen your ability to cope with new skills and insights.

You can try online therapy from the comfort of your own space and access a supportive therapeutic relationship to explore big questions such as what is the meaning of my life? And concrete questions such as what do I want to say to my boss on Monday? There’s no one right way to engage with therapy. What’s important is that it resonates with you.

A closing note

If you feel bad or depleted, it only makes sense to want to feel better ASAP. But when you’re struggling with your mental health, your ability to focus and concentrate can disappear and your stamina will likely be a lot lower than you’d hope.

Manage your expectations and set realistic goals for yourself. You might start by naming one positive thing that happened at the end of each day and noting it down or taking a walk around the block. When you make slow and incremental changes, you’re much more likely to sustain them.

Kate Dubé

Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) | Berkeley

Kate Dubé is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and mental health writer trained at UC Berkeley and UCSF in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, mindfulness, psychodynamic and psychoanalytic approaches. She specializes in creating a therapeutic space to work through daily stressors, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues and life transitions, including parenthood. Kate incorporates her clinical expertise to create well-researched, accessible content on topics ranging… Read more